It’s human nature to focus on the negative. A hundred things can go right in a day, most of which we won’t even notice or realize. Yet one wrong thing happens and we completely lose our minds. We obsess, we beat ourselves up, and we waste precious emotional energy by allowing the negative to take over our day and our thoughts.
How do we redirect our focus and regain our perspective?
We access our gratitude.
Gratitude is defined as the quality of being thankful; feelings that well up from the heart and mind.
Gratitude connects us to the greater world that we live in. It elevates our mindset, refocuses our energies and reminds us of our priorities. Accessing our gratitude can dig us out of the despair we might find ourselves sinking into when life gets stressful and overwhelming. It reminds us of our value to ourselves, our community, our world.
There are times when true tragedy impacts our lives. Our focus and our emotions must give these situations the attention they require and deserve. But, in order to live the fullness of our lives, we must allow ourselves to be aware of and to be grateful for the blessings in our lives.
We live in a world filled with natural beauty. (I mean hello…it’s called Big Sky Country for a reason!) Breathtaking landscape full of vibrant colors, scents, and sounds. Whether your happy place is in the mountains, on the beach, or your own backyard, allow your mind to imagine that place. Find gratitude for the beauty of this world.
From there let your mind travel to your home, whether it’s your own private sanctuary, a place you share with a partner or with your loving family. Find gratitude for the roof overhead, the shelter from the storm, the place where you can let down your guard and be the most authentic and relaxed version of you.
Let your mind travel to your family, the people who you are the most grateful to have in your life. The love you share knows no bounds or conditions. It is heartfelt and pure. Find gratitude for the love, the deep sense of caring, and the unbreakable bond that is family, even those that we don’t share DNA with.
Sometimes the lines between family and friends blur. There are those in our lives whose love and support are essential to our making it through each day. It is with these amazing friends that we choose to share our struggles and our joy, and it is with much gratitude that we recognize that they have chosen for us to be in their lives too.
We have so much that is positive and good to offer. When we give of ourselves, when we allow our unique selves to shine, the world is enhanced by our brilliance. When we look at ourselves with compassion, when we truly see and appreciate the many layers that make up our being, we can access our gratitude and find love for all of who we are.
With the holiday of Thanksgiving on the horizon, we are reminded to think about giving thanks for everything in our lives. Gratitude is available for us to access always. Find moments throughout your day to notice what you are grateful for. A loved one’s smile, a meaningful conversation with a friend, a triumph at work. Let these moments sink in deeply. The more you look the more you will see, and in doing so, you will undoubtedly have found access to your gratitude.
Don’t forget to join us for our Grateful Thanksgiving Flow on Thursday Nov 28th from 9am-10am. Sign up here!
I sincerely hope that your Thanksgiving is filled with gratitude for all that is in your life!
Namaste
Jessica